Comments on: آتش عشق

By: Syeda Mehar Afshan

Syeda Mehar Afshan — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 21:31:00 +0000

Asalamo alaikum,
Saadia may Allah bless you and your parents who gave you the best education of deen and dunia, and brought you up a briliant girl,no one can give the better advice than yours,may Allah give the guidence to all muslims so we our self be good muslims and brought our children one too,aameen

By: Saadia

Saadia — Mon, 13 Feb 2006 08:22:39 +0000

Aslamolaykum…(this is a comment for “Aata-Sha-Ishaq)
Well, if this story is true, then no one is actually talking about “ISLAM” here…
1.first of All, its Mother’s duty to be friends with her daughter…and be open with her so she could tell her most of her secrets…
2.we should teach our kids to be a better Muslims…these days, parents think that Reading Quran and praying 5 times a day is being a good muslim..thats not true..we hae to think like a muslim 27/7/365 InshAllah.
3. shes young..shes 17..kids make mistakes…yes i understand it was silly but again, if she was being stupid, parents didnt do the greatest thing either… they probblay thought that ohhh hes in ENGLAND so who cares how he is and how old he is…
4. they are worried about their so called “IZZAT” not ISLAM… if they were better muslims, they would of spoke to her and listened to her choice as well.
5. we shouldn’t and CAN NOT KILL pplz if they dont listen to us.
6. its ZIDD, its ANNAH,its BHARAM, these parents are more worried about their BEZTI from their khandan and friends than the FEAR and LOVE of ALLAH (SWT).
7..if they love each other for SURE then let her finish her studies and in few years see how the 19 years old boy would turn out to be..would he be a gr8 Muslim?? could/would provide for his family??? im sure its just a young love…young pplz make mistakes..but after ALL they are the CHILDREN..if parents are so worried, then they should PROTECT them..not by beating them up but by getting close to them and TALKING to them…..

at the end all i have to say is that, TURN TO ISLAM…or there would be more stories that would keep showing up in the future…..

Wssalam..
PS: and yes, im a young girl as well and proud of it MashAllah

By: Ayesha

Ayesha — Sat, 11 Feb 2006 21:45:25 +0000

I am myself a girl, and being from a educated family and well behaved family, my mother has always been a friend to me, I don’t say that I am perfect and never did a mistake or such activity, I also had some issues in my past, and I had always tell my mother about them, because she is the one who the world better than me, and above all she is my mother, she would best for me : ), a child should never betray their parents, and in Girls cases I would say that what ever you do, what ever you think let your mother know that, and for mothers I would say that they should listen to their girls problems and should have a open mind to discuss such situations and problems, because I have seen many girls who say that when ever they try to talk their mothers say that you aren’t big enough to talk on this issues, by doing such thing mothers are themselves making girls go wrong , sit down relax and listen to problem and girls should follow what their parents tell them : )!

Am proud to have a world best mother! Who is always there to listen and sort out my problem : ) love ya maaaa!

By: اجمل

اجمل — Sat, 11 Feb 2006 06:13:42 +0000

اصل مسئلہ تاخیر سے شادی نہیں ہے ۔ مسئلہ اولاد کی صحیح پرورش کا ہے ۔ ہم لوگوں کا فرنگیوں کی نقّالی میں یہ حال ہو گیا ہے کہ کوّے نے دم میں مور کا پر لگا کر سمجھا کہ مور بن گیا ۔ موروں میں گیا تو موروں نے پٹائی کی واپس کوّوں میں آیا تو انہوں نے بھی پٹائی کی ۔ آپ نے پوچھا ہے قصور کس کا ہے ۔ قصور لڑکی کی ماں کا ہے ۔ پہلے اُس نے اپنی بیٹی کی صحیح نگہداشت نہ کی اور پھر شادی کے متعلق غلط فیصلہ کیا ۔

By: WiseSabre

WiseSabre — Fri, 10 Feb 2006 14:18:22 +0000

ہمارے ہاں چھوٹی عمر میں شادی کرنے کا رواج نہیں ہے۔

حلانکہ اس زمانے میں تو جتنی جلدی ممکن ہو بچے/بچی کی شادی کر دینی چاہے۔

کبھی تعلیم بھی مکمل ہوئی ہے؟
کبھی انسان اتنا کماتا ہے کہ اس کی سب خواہشات مکمل ہو جائیں؟